Better or Bitter?

We all encounter trials in our lives. Even though it may seem like it, nobody lives that "picture perfect" life. Trials are specific to the individual, and if we embrace them correctly, they can change our lives and become molded into the best people we can be. Trials can lead us into two different directions, two different words, two different lives, yet by only changing one letter.  Better... or bitter? In the Book of Alma in the Book of Mormon, Captain Moroni is an amazing man. He is an example of such courage and standing up for what one believes in. However, in Chapter 60, Moroni, although a great man, accuses a member of the government, Pahoran, for many wrong things based on what he assumes about Pahoran. Now this is definitely not easy for Pahoran. This no doubt is a trial for him to be accused like this, as it would be for any who are in fact trying to do what is right yet are stuck in a sticky situation. Pahoran easily could be upset and react bitterly toward Moroni for accusing him like this, and in no way want to help. However, in chapter 61, verse 9, this is how Pahoran responds to Moroni in his letter: "And now, in your epistle you have censured me, but it mattereth not; I am not angry, but do rejoice in the greatness of your heart. I Pahoran, do not seek for power, save only to retain my judgment-seat that I may preserve the rights and liberty of my people. My soul standeth fast in that liberty in the which God hath made us free." Pahoran absolutely takes the high road here, and responds with a soft heart, going on to say that he is with them and will help them. He did not seek for power. He was not angry. He did not turn bitter. And because of this, Pahoran became a better man. Moroni then marches to the aid of Pahoran and they fight together. Because of the way Pahoran responded to Moroni, They both together are bonded and have the power of God on their side. As we go forth and encounter trials in our every day lives, may we think of Pahoran and remember the two options that lay before us: bitter or better. May we all strive to try a little harder to be a little better, is my prayer, in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Emmaline